1.) In your book, Lying in Weight: The Hidden Epidemic of Eating Disorders in Adult Women, you talk about the fact that the subject of eating disorders among adult women does not get the attention it deserves. Why do you think this is?
The media perpetuates a myth: that eating disorders happen only to teenagers who want to look like fashion models. Society at large accepts that myth and doesn’t realize the older women suffer too, in fact doubly. Older women feel like two-time losers 1. Because they have an eating disorder and 2. Because they think they should know better due to age.
Finally, older women are less reluctant to seek help for the reasons above. Until recently, fewer were coming forward for treatment because they either were so embarrassed and/or did not realize they could have an eating disorder in the 40s, 50s even 70s.(The oldest women with anorexia in Lying in Weight was 92). The less that came forward, the less attention the issue received.
2) What do you want the audience to take away from your talk at Sheppard Pratt on Oct. 5?
Anyone male or female of an ethnicity or race can get an eating disorder. But at the same given the right treatment and support, anyone can heal.
3) What makes your talk at Sheppard Pratt relevant to everyone, not just those with disordered eating or those prone to developing eating disorders?
In only one instance have I met a woman who did not have some issue with her body size or image. Cindy Bulik’s group at the University of North Carolina found 75 percent of all American women endorse some unhealthy thoughts, feelings or behaviors related to food or their bodies. Men, particularly athletes and those involved in professions that value appearance, are joining the ranks of their female counterparts. Thus, a discussion of body image and food and exercise behaviors is relevant to a much larger group than those who have eating disorders.
4) In your book, you say that midlife events can trigger disordered eating. What types of events are you referring to and what role do they play in developing eating disorders?
In midlife there are no less than 15 major transitions that can affect a person’s life i.e. divorce, an empty nest, menopause. Those life changes pile up in midlife, much like the physical, emotional and hormonal changes of adolescence cumulate in teenagers to cause overall tumult. The sense of everything coming apart is what prompts many latent eating disorders to ripen.
5) What advice would you give to someone who thinks they may be at risk for developing an eating disorder as a result of midlife events?
Know that you are not alone. Early statistics show that the number of women in their 40s and 50s seeking treatment have tripled and quadrupled, respectively, in the last decade.
Reach out for help. Your body is not that of a teenager and will not bounce back from unhealthy behaviors as quickly. Also, if you have children and/or loved ones, they will suffer from your lack of attention to the problem and benefit beyond words from your courage in undertaking a journey toward healing.
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